"DP" and Me

DP and I became a "grandfamily" about three years ago. We are learning all about readjustment: me as a parent--again, him as part of a "new" family. Each day we find our little blessing in the storm.









Wednesday, June 15, 2011

I did it my waaay, pt. 2

I asked DP how was school, just to follow up on yesterday's temper tantrum. A little chit chat, then he announced he had apologized to the teacher for his behavior. I was cool, but I wanted to slam on the brakes, pull the car over, and give him a big hug and sloppy kiss...but I was cool. The teacher accepted his apology and said they would start over. After saying how proud I was that he made that decision, un-coerced, we could start over, too.

Later that evening: "Nana, does this mean I can have my PSP [video game] back?"

"Nope. You did the crime; you do the time. But I really am very proud of the decision you made."

P.S. By the way, I did give him a big hug. I am so proud of how much he has grown and matured over the years. In hindsight, I believe he was testing his boundaries...and my patience.

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